As poet and author Maya Angelou encouraged, we can all “be a rainbow in someone’s world.” And, in today’s complex global community, a single act of kindness can go a long way toward brightening the day for others.
In fact, research shows that encouraging kids to be kind has a positive influence on a slew of academic, health and social outcomes including increased self-esteem, motivation to learn and resilience.
So why not incorporate an extra dose of kindness into your next family vacation?
Here are five ideas to consider.
- Pack an attitude of gratitude
Leave impatience and judgment behind and showcase an attitude of gratitude on your next getaway. Lead with a smile and offer thanks to those you meet along the way, including harried flight attendants, pilots, TSA agents and front desk personnel. Offer good cheer to tour guides, bus drivers, restaurant servers and room attendants, and encourage the kids to say thank you whenever appropriate. Consider leaving a handwritten note or crayon drawing along with your tip, an extra effort sure to garner a smile from the recipient. If you loved your hotel stay or guest ranch experience, leave a note congratulating the whole crew for a job well done.
- Pay it forward with a kind act
What goes around comes around. So give kindness a nudge in the right direction. Discuss (and model) how offering a seat or opening a door can be helpful. Encourage the heavily laden or parents managing a cranky child to go ahead in line. Perhaps a strong teen can assist a frail adult with removing a heavy piece of luggage from the overhead compartment. In the queue for a soda or coffee? Quietly pay for someone in uniform, the elderly or the safety officer behind you in line. By simply taking notice, opportunities for extending kindness will multiply.