The kindest person I’ve ever known was my friend Shoshana’s mother, Deanna. She passed away at about the same time my mother did. Shoshana and I attended back-to-back memorial services and stood near each other as we shared poignant memories about our mothers. At Deanna’s memorial, I relayed a story about the time in college I was terribly sick with the flu and Deanna, who was a nurse, dropped off a big box filled with comforting, “feel better” items, including a whole pineapple. The enclosed note explained that pineapples have more vitamin C than oranges, so I should eat up. I can’t see a pineapple now without thinking of Deanna’s boundless good heart.
One summer when I was in my 30s, Shoshana and I drove to visit Deanna in Raymond, where Deanna lived with her own mother. I have the most beautiful memory of waking up on the first day of my visit, sun streaming through the window. I ambled into the kitchen, where Shoshana, her mother and grandmother were all gathered around the table, slathering jam onto what looked like Yorkshire puddings.
“Mom made popovers!” Shoshana said.
We sat in the lemony morning light and ate popover after popover, heavy with jam and still warm from the oven. I’d never heard of popovers before, which was too bad because they’re delicious. I identified them as Yorkshire puddings for a good reason: The ingredients and baking technique make them nearly identical. The main difference is that Yorkshire pudding can be cooked in drippings from roast beef while popovers are cooked in butter. Yorkshire puddings are meant to be enjoyed with savory meals while popovers are perfect for jam, marmalade, lemon curd or even fresh berries and whipped cream. Both recipes are wondrously springy and eggy, hollow and soft on the inside but crispy on the outside. Both taste best when eaten just out of the oven, releasing a tantalizing puff of steam when cut open.
In the name of research, I read J. Kenji Lopez-Alt’s excellent article on Serious Eats about Yorkshire pudding and popovers. He makes about a million batches and tests every technique. His conclusion: It’s hard to make terrible popovers, yet somehow I did, ruining two batches of his fail-safe popovers (or Yorkshire puddings, whichever). My daughter saw my flopped, dense popovers and encouraged me to use the tried-and-true recipe from the Better Homes and Gardens cookbook. I did and they turned out beautifully on my first try.