BELLINGHAM — All fifty states require you to be at least 21 years old to possess alcohol. But there’s less of a consensus on whether or not minors can drink under the supervision of a parent. According to a 2023 database maintained by the National Institute of Health’s Alcohol Policy Information System, there’s nearly an even split between states on that question.
So if a parent opens a bottle of wine at dinner, does Washington allow them to let their child have a sip? Here’s what state law says.
Parents can give their children alcohol in most cases
According to RCW 66.44.270, it’s illegal to “sell, give, or otherwise supply liquor to any person under the age of 21 years.” That includes allowing anyone under 21 to drink alcohol in a building they own or are in charge of. It’s also illegal for anyone under 21 to “possess, consume, or otherwise acquire any liquor.”
However, the law contains an exception for alcohol “given or permitted to be given to a person under the age of 21 years by a parent or guardian and consumed in the presence of the parent or guardian.” While that gives parents pretty broad reign to give their children alcohol, state law prohibits parents from giving alcohol to a minor in a business with a state liquor license, meaning parents can’t buy their kid an alcoholic drink at a bar or restaurant.