“As part of that (identity development), it is natural to look to others and compare ourselves,” Day said.” Adolescents (and adults) in particular draw comparisons between themselves and what is on social media. People tend to try to show their ‘best selves’ online. When we see the ‘ideal’ life someone else is leading, whether that be posts of their vacations, social events, or discussions on appearance, we naturally begin to suspect we may be inadequate. People typically do not post about their day-to-day struggles, the hurdles they faced, or the effort it took to develop those positive experiences. As a result, we see an unrealistic portrayal of people’s happiness and well-being online and unrealistically set expectations for us to have the same.”
With increased social media use comes risks of sleep disturbances.
“Disrupted sleep patterns are a particular concern in youth as they are undergoing significant brain development and trying to balance multiple obligations through their school, family, and social life. We know that sleep deprivation connects to a variety of mental health concerns, such as depression, anxiety, and others,” Day said.
Another concern parents may have with youth social media use is exposure to online discrimination, exploitation, and cyberbullying.
“The internet offers ample opportunities for anonymity which in turn leads to increasing polarizing comments and the possibility of being bullied,” Day said. “Cyberbullying is harmful and has that added effect of creating a digital footprint. It is the type of bullying that keeps returning even if one’s situation changes. Furthermore, social media for many teens lacks the scrutiny of adults that is present in a school or home environment. Parents may not be aware of what their children are doing online or the messages they are receiving. This might include youth accessing inappropriate or sexually explicit material online, viewing violent and abusive behavior, and others.”