They say you eat with your eyes first, although it would be hard to squeeze a turkey sandwich past my glasses. But seriously, it is true that appearance can affect taste and lovely surroundings can elevate even the humblest meal.
For dining at home, Corelle may be just as good as Wedgwood when it comes to meatloaf and mashed potatoes. However, there is something deeply appealing about a well-appointed table: the sparkle of wine glasses and china, the luster of polished silver, fresh flowers and glowing candles all foretell that a delicious meal is about to be served. Because Thanksgiving is such an occasion, and because family cooks have likely spent days laboring over special recipes that ought to be savored, I thought it might be timely to share five tips for setting a beautiful table.
A caveat: If your palms itch and you break out in hives at the mere thought of creating an intricate tablescape in addition to cooking all day and cleaning up all night, then stop reading right now and go have a bubble bath or take a nap. Life is hard enough without having to spend an hour adjusting acorns and gathering dead leaves or what have you. On the other hand, if you’re already imagining your moss-and-mini-pumpkin centerpiece and Googling how to braid your own table runner out of dried corn husks, then by all means, read on.
You don’t need posh things, just things that you love.
My Thanksgiving table is the grandest hodge-podge of thrift store and secondhand items you could imagine, laid cheek-by-jowl with heirloom pieces. When I set the table, though, I’m not thinking about what’s valuable and what’s cheap. I’m considering what each thing means to me — what memories they’re connected to and which cherished friends and family they remind me of. I usually set the Thanksgiving table with Desert Rose dishes that I inherited from my mother. I miss her the most at Thanksgiving and using her dishes makes me feel like she’s still here with me. My table isn’t fashionable but seeing my collection of Thanksgiving bric-a-brac makes me feel good. I have lots of items with negligible objective value that nonetheless fill me with joy, like the chipped corn-shaped pitcher that my grandmother displayed in her dining room. Lavish some affection on your Thanksgiving table by dressing it with objects that make you happy, whether they’re designer wine glasses or dollar store dishes.