I grew up eating plenty of meat, but after I graduated from college and moved out on my own, I realized that meat is expensive. I became a pseudo-vegetarian, eating ramen with vegetables in my tiny apartment and savoring meat when dining with my parents, i.e., when they were footing the bill. I did occasionally splash out and buy a package of hot dogs, which I’d ration out one at a time, slicing them into pots of boiling noodles with celery and carrots.
This was a far cry from my girlhood in Vancouver in the late 1970s and early ’80s, when red meat for dinner was as commonplace as water and going out for steak dinners was something that every middle-class family could afford. My comparatively frugal parents would get a year’s supply of beef in one fell swoop from a local rancher. We’d pick a cow from the field then have it butchered and packaged into individual cuts, everything from the tongue to the tail, and keep it in our huge chest freezer. It always had a name, like Patches or Pokey, a fact that made me slightly uncomfortable, but was pushed aside with thoughts of juicy hamburgers.
Many years later, when my husband-to-be asked me where I’d like to go for our first official date, I didn’t hesitate. After months of ramen, I knew what I wanted: dinner at Black Angus with rare steaks, loaded baked potatoes and a bottle of red wine. Filet mignon was my favorite meal and I never thought twice about what that meant for my arteries or the environment or the cow.
Our marriage has lasted, but our consumption of meat has diminished considerably as we’ve learned more about meat’s true cost, not just in terms of dollars but also damage to the planet. I haven’t ordered a whole steak in a restaurant in maybe 15 years. I still love steak, but now we’ll grill them at home once or twice a summer. (Much nicer, on balance, than the cavelike interior of Ye Olde Steakhouse.)