Jam-making was treated with utmost seriousness in my family. My grandmother grew up at least partly in an era without refrigeration, so preserving the summer’s bounty to consume in the winter was a matter not just of pleasure but also of necessity.
She continued this habit for most of her life, until she no longer had a kitchen and her trusty pressure cooker was packed into an attic or perhaps sold at a garage sale. After her last summer of canning, I hoarded jars of her raspberry jam like precious bars of gold. I held onto a single jar of ripe peaches preserved in honey for years after her death, unwilling to let go of that last, sweet connection with her, until at last safety dictated that I throw it out. How I wish I had enjoyed those peaches right away, spooned over ice cream or cottage cheese, or simply ladled into a bowl so that I could slurp up the last drops of honeyed syrup after scarfing down the peaches, spoonful after spoonful.
But back to jam. When my mother and grandmother were crowded into the steamy kitchen with piles of Mason jars and flats of berries, sweat patches forming on their shirts as they hovered over the pressure cooker, I stayed well out of the way. It seemed like one of those mysteries of adulthood, like where babies come from or why we had to eat vegetables for dinner instead of ice cream. Pressure-cooking never lost this air of danger in my mind and so I have, to date, never used a pressure cooker to can a single bean or berry.
However, when I discovered freezer jam in my mid-30s, I realized I’d found my passion. Just boil up some fruit, add sugar and pectin, spoon the hot mixture into sterilized jars and stick it in the freezer for six months to a year, or, if you’re me, six to eight years. But really, please stick to food safety guidelines and don’t eat it if you can’t remember what it is or if it is older than your oldest child.