My ongoing project this year is to re-create meaningful meals. I’ve mainly been exploring my mother’s recipes but I’ve also been thinking about other folks who’ve invited me to share their tables. Plainly speaking, I’m hoping to cook up some of the connectedness that I’ve missed this year. Food is always the answer, right?
When my daughter was in elementary school, she struck up a friendship with a girl from a large, charmingly boisterous family. No doubt, she found it a fascinating counterpoint to the relatively subdued home life of an only child. When she went her friend’s house for playdates, I’d often stay to chat. I positively relished the time I spent in their cozy little saltbox house. It never felt small; it only felt full of love.
One evening, the girls didn’t want to part from each other, so we stayed for dinner. They served “haystacks,” a budget-friendly, build-your-own meal that the children greeted with enthusiasm. It wasn’t fancy-schmancy but it hit the spot: a tasty layered creation of rice, steamed peas, diced tomato, fresh cilantro, cheddar cheese and a sauce made from cream of mushroom soup. I thought it was pretty darn clever and took the idea home with me, along with the memory of that warm, wonderful evening.
“Haystacks” might bring to mind the no-bake cookies made with dried noodles. (In fact, I wrote about haystack cookies last year.) These haystacks are a savory meal made by stacking things on top of each other until you have a lovely mound of goodness. To be clear, this is not advanced cheffery; it is a pile of food in a bowl. Long before there was Mighty Bowl or Cafe Yumm, frugal home cooks have relied on the haystack method to use up culinary bits and pieces, transforming them into do-it-yourself dinnertime entertainment.