May is a busy time for high school students, particularly seniors. But now, the coronavirus pandemic has canceled sports, competitions and activities, not to mention prom and graduation. What event or activity were you particularly excited for this year? Why is it important to you? How are you feeling missing it?
I have played club softball for 11 years, and varsity softball at Woodland High School for all four years. Softball has been my life for as long as I can remember, and this is going to be my last season since I am leaving for college, and will not be continuing my softball career. Having a senior night was going to be great closure for me, after all of the time I have spent playing ball. It’s heartbreaking that I won’t get that experience, but hopefully over the summer, I am able to play at least one last tournament. It’s hard to think I may have already played my last game, and didn’t even know it.
Many of you talked about the lack of closure this year brought. Tell us about why it’s important to you to have some sense of closure on your educational experience, and what, if anything, you’re doing to make peace with the fact that this period of your life is coming to an end.
It’s important to have a sense of closure because you are ending an era in your life. It’s not just a small insignificant time, but your whole childhood. From your first school friend, to your transition from middle school to high school, to your graduation, those are things you will remember forever. They are events in your life that you’ll tell your kids about, or go back and look at pictures of. And now, because of coronavirus, we are missing a huge piece of those memories. The last half of our senior year, prom, spring senior nights, and graduation. For me, my sense of closure will be the modified graduation and prom my school is putting on, and making a point to see my friends this summer before I go off to college (if it’s safe to do so). Though it won’t be the same as I had originally planned, it’s something, and I’m excited to see what it looks like!