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Everybody Has a Story: A left-handed approach to the tree of love

By Mark Rees, Vancouver Heights
Published: March 16, 2019, 6:05am

I was 27 years old and a Navy veteran. I had a college degree in my pocket and planned to be a forest ranger. But I was working as a maritime cargo officer in the Merchant Marine because it paid twice as much. During time off from the Merchant Marine, I took a contract with Washington state to replant fir trees after land had been logged in the Columbia River Gorge.

I was working a crew of a dozen planters. One day, a young lady named Trudy applied for a job but then decided against planting trees. I fell in love with her at first sight. I asked her for a date, only to be turned down.

Being an older man, I knew what I was looking for. The forest ranger thing faded after some experience working in the field, but this girl was stuck in my mind and heart. Not only did she have a college degree but also had recently returned from overseas as a Baptist missionary. She was beautiful, bright and funny. Also, she was left-handed. So am I. To right-handers, this might mean very little, but left-handers think and behave differently. Right-handed girls bored me.

I fell head over heels for Trudy. Instead of returning to sea and being gone for months, I went back to college to tack a teacher’s license onto my career, to live in Vancouver, my hometown, and to win Trudy’s hand. I called her every six months, asking for a date. Finally, after three years, she granted me the privilege.

We dated several months, then I convinced her to marry me. A couple of weeks after returning from our honeymoon, with Trudy’s last name changed to Rees, we were jointly banking and housekeeping when an event finally hit her. While writing a check in the grocery line, she signed her name T. Rees and realized that her new name was TRees!

Then she realized this marriage was meant to be. Had she not at least considered planting trees and met me on the mountain, none of this perfect life would have happened.

We both taught school for decades, raised a family, have been active citizens in our community and lived a fairy-tale life and marriage, the past 39 years. Who says love at first sight isn’t a true phenomenon?


Everybody Has a Story welcomes true, first-person tales by Columbian readers, 1,000 words maximum, and relevant photographs. Send to: neighbors@columbian.com or P.O. Box 180, Vancouver WA, 98666. Call “Everybody Has an Editor” Scott Hewitt, 360-735-4525, with questions.

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