It was the summer of 1951. My brother, Bill, was 13 and I was 11. Our father had passed away six years earlier, leaving Mom to raise two sons and manage the family hardware store in the Dalles.
Our closest family was 150 miles away, thus providing little close support for a mom valiantly trying to be both mother and father, running a business and being the family bread winner. My brother and I learned skills and responsibility both at home (cooking, yard work, laundry) and at the store (stocking shelves, eventually clerking). An English teacher by education and vocation, Mom made sure we took schoolwork seriously, but she also found time for extracurricular activities, Scouting experiences, sports and annual vacations.
Even though he was many miles away in Kennewick, Grandpa took on a significant role. By age 83, poor eyesight had forced him to give up driving. Even so, he made frequent trips by train to spend time with Mom, Bill and me. These visits were often made with little notice, or none at all. But he always had a plan, mostly to spend quality time with grandsons who didn’t have a father.
One Friday, Grandpa called Mom from the local train station to announce his late-afternoon arrival. Uh-oh, that was a problem — we had just finished packing and were ready to leave on a weekend camping trip. Mom’s dilemma was, cancel the camping trip or convince Grandpa to come with us? Coming along would mean finding suitable camping clothes and supplies for Grandpa, who was a meticulous dresser, always wearing a suit and tie when traveling. Reluctantly at first, he finally agreed to come with us, and Mom somehow came up with the needed clothes, added more provisions to the food box and found an extra sleeping bag. Off we went.