At this time of year, I am reminded of an experience that I feel is a perfect example of the meaning of the season.
My husband had just been transferred to San Francisco to live and had moved into a house without the opportunity to acquaint ourselves with our neighborhood or the surrounding area. I was still unpacking and my husband left for his work each day, and I learned later that our new neighbors were giving us time to settle in before coming to welcome us and introduce themselves.
One evening while I was preparing dinner, my husband put our 3-year-old daughter into her pajamas and they spent some valuable time together reading in her bedroom and playing until time to eat. As she was bouncing around the room, she stumbled against a bedside table with a glass of water sitting on it.
At that point, the inevitable and all-too-familiar “Murphy’s Law” arrived on the scene, and before my husband could catch her, our daughter fell into the table and against the glass, splitting her mouth open as it shattered. She was bleeding profusely and gagging. My husband hollered to me to bring towels and, without really being sure where a hospital was (and there wasn’t 911 then), we wrapped her up, ran to the garage and into the car, and sped off for help. Every parent knows that terrifying and helpless feeling when your child is in danger and you’re unable to fix it.