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Singletary: Be a sentinel for your seniors

By Michelle Singletary

Published: April 15, 2016, 6:00am

We have to become sentinels for our seniors.

That’s what Irving Faught, administrator for the Oklahoma Securities Commission, told me when I wrote about elderly financial abuse.

Recently, a reader, Andrea from Virginia, asked how to further help a friend who had fallen victim to a scam targeting taxpayers.

The woman, in her 60s, retired and experiencing some cognitive issues, received a phone call and was told she owed thousands of dollars to the IRS for three years’ worth of back taxes. She was told there was a warrant for her arrest and that, if she didn’t wire money immediately to a Western Union office in North Carolina, she would be arrested.

“By the time she got to me, she had already wired them $1,500 and they told her to pay the rest using her credit card and to purchase iTunes cards. She didn’t even know what an iTunes card was. They also told her to leave her phone off the hook until she sent the money or cards,” Andrea said. “Because she did not have a working cellphone and did not know her PIN number or how or where to purchase iTunes cards, she came to me.”

When her friend showed up at her door late one night with the story of the IRS chasing her for money, Andrea stopped her from sending any more money and helped file a police report.

“What can be done to prevent isolated elderly adults from making these ill-advised and heart-rending financial decisions?” Andrea asked.

I don’t expect these bogus calls to stop once the federal tax return deadline passes Monday. They are likely to increase actually.

Now that many people have filed their returns, some of the con artists have switched tactics, making calls claiming they need to double check information on a person’s return, according to the IRS. The motive, of course, is to get people to reveal bank or credit card information or their Social Security number.

“These schemes continue to adapt and evolve in an attempt to catch people off guard,” said IRS Commissioner John Koskinen in another warning about the scam. “Don’t be fooled. The IRS won’t be calling you out of the blue asking you to verify your personal tax information or aggressively threatening you to make an immediate payment.”

So back to Andrea’s concern and how we all can help. If you have a senior in your life, set up an accountability system.

You don’t have to be an expert. You just need to be available. Here’s the advice I gave to Andrea:

• Become the person’s sounding board. Say something such as: “If you’re unsure about something, just call me and I can help you figure out if the information is correct.”

The language is important because you don’t want to sound as if you are taking over their finances. But you also want to make clear they can and should call anytime to double check something. There may come a time when this person needs someone to take control, but for now you’ll be the go-between.

• Schedule check-up calls. You can’t always be sure the person will consult you, so become a reliable presence. Ask lots of probing questions.

• Stay informed about the latest scams. Share news you see about schemes. It’s a way to plant seeds of mistrust so that if a call or email comes, the person will be skeptical. The Federal Trade Commission has a “Scam Alert” feature (www.consumer.ftc.gov/scam-alerts). Subscribe to it and have the alerts delivered to your email inbox.

There are many seniors who are very capable of managing their finances and steering clear of scams. But others are vulnerable and they need sentries to protect them from financial predators. They need you.

Michelle Singletary welcomes comments and column ideas. Reach her in care of The Washington Post, 1150 15th St. N.W., Washington, DC 20071; or singletarym@washpost.com.

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