On Monday night’s “Women Tell All” episode of “The Bachelor,” Season 20 villain Olivia Caridi claimed she was “prioritizing my relationship and trying to stay afloat by doing what I feel comfortable doing, which is kind of being on my own.” Or, to put it in reality TV lingo, she was not there to make friends.
That infamous refrain is uttered at least once a season and is “Bachelor” viewers’s go-to catchphrase. But between all the drama and catfights that get screen time, it can escape our attention that many of the competitors do, in fact, become friends.
If you look at former contestants’ social media accounts, you’ll see Instagram photos of them out on the town together and tweets announcing how excited they are to meet up. Two “Bachelor” and “Bachelor in Paradise” veterans, Carly Waddell and Jade Tolbert, even made “friendship goals” T-shirts together.
So, which are the real “Bachelor” women: the ones bad-mouthing one another to the man they’re competing over and making catty remarks to undercut his front-runners? Or the ones hugging on reunion shows and exchanging Twitter shout-outs?