Very few things bring out more emotion in parents than watching their kids play youth sports. Showing emotion is normal and a sign that parents care, which kids will recognize, appreciate and understand. The problem comes when adults choose to display their emotions in a way that takes the focus away from the kids who are playing. Over-enthusiastic parents and coaches often take the fun out of sports for young athletes, fans and other parents.
Signs of over enthusiasm include bragging incessantly about a kid’s sports achievements, placing too much emphasis on a child’s career and giving false praise to kids. Of course, the biggest sign of over-enthusiastic parents is making a “scene” at their kids’ games — to the point that makes others uncomfortable.
Signs of this behavior are cheering too loudly, coaching from the stands, berating players on the opposing team, and second-guessing game officials. All of these signs of overzealous adults can easily take the fun out of youth sports. Additionally, the tension created by this behavior often leads to ugly, memorable confrontations. Zeal and enthusiasm are great, but adults who go over the line of appropriate behavior give those positive qualities a bad name.
Following are suggestions for how to deal with overzealous sport parents and coaches:
o Adults who notice an unpleasant situation should discuss the situation with as many team parents as possible to find the level of unhappiness about this behavior.